You should have been there… Wednesday, Jul 29 2009 

One day during Boat Week we were lounging on the deck, sunbathing and chatting and having refreshing drinks. Somehow the conversation turned to military and in particular, Generation Kill. Now, ever since reading Generation Kill, and checking out every video posted regarding it on youtube (What!? I was bored!) I’ve had a major crush on one of the guys portrayed in the book and the series.

Nothing new there, I’ve crushed over book characters (Capt. Wentworth, anyone?) and guys in movies (Sean Penn in the Interpreter?) before, but these are actual guys, real life, not some fictional make-belief. But, as I soundly refuse to believe in the apparently age-old wisdom of “you can’t always get what you want”, I asked M, my friend who happened to be there with us and serves in the Corps, if he knows them. You know, ’cause I’d love to meet them and all. They all seemed genuinely interesting people.

M goes all indignant on me. “You want me to hook you up with some guy you’ve never met?! First off, I don’t personally know every single US Marine there is!” Then he went on (and on and on!) how there’s actually quite a few of them, how they’re stationed on different bases around the States and how some of them are actually on deployment all the time. Rather condescending, if you ask me, but then again, no one ever does…

Then, after that little rant, he finishes with what has got to be one of the best lines ever. “Besides, what am I? Pimping out the Marine Corps now?!?”

Without missing a beat Hélène, seated next to me, calmly and casually lifted the brim of her hat, and said, nonchalantly,

“yes, please.”

And then she returned to taking in the rays, as if M has just asked if anyone wanted a drink. It was hilarious! I guess you should have been there, but trust me, it was seriously funny!

Survival Pack Tuesday, Jul 28 2009 

The sister of a good friend of mine (S) is moving into my flat. She’s starting university studies here. As a good big sister and the friend of a big sister, we though we’d get one of those wooden wine bottle boxes I’ve got plenty of, and put together a Survival Pack for Sis. Here’s what we’ve come up with so far:

- lunch vouchers. There’s a system in Finland, called ‘lunch vouchers’, where your employer can give you these vouchers, that are fundamentally like gift cards but they’re accepted universally in fast food places, restaurants and even at the deli counters in supermarkets. And as it happens, S’s current employer gives them a voucher for each day we work (it’s a benefit, they have to pay taxes for part of the sum). She doesn’t use one every day at work, so usually has a stack of them in her purse. And like yesterday, she stopped by at the Subway to get food, and paid with the lunch voucher. With the 10% discount they give there for Student ID, you can get a 30cm sub with the voucher. That’s practically free food! So she’s leaving Sis few of the vouchers. For when she’s hungry and money’s short.

- dark turquoise nail polish. Sis looks really good in dark turquoise, so I though I’d leave her a bottle of nail polish in the perfect shade. For when she’s feeling not so pretty.

- candy. For when life’s really being a pain in the butt.

- Cry Baby DVD. Sis apparently loves Johnny Depp and Cry Baby, and I saw it in the discount bin at the store. For when she’s bored.

- A box of scraps of paper with “PUS” (that’d be “KISS” in Finnish) written on them, scrunched up in red silk paper. For when she gets homesick and feels lonely.

That’s all we’ve got so far. She doesn’t really drink alcohol, so… maybe a mini bottle of something, for when she really needs a drink. I’m thinking few more items… Any ideas?

Pool-side psychology Wednesday, Jul 15 2009 

H: You want everyone to fall in love with you.

Me: What are you talking about? That’s nonsense! I don’t give a whistle on what people think of me. I’m perfectly fine with people not liking me.

H: Yes, that’s right. You don’t want them all to like you. Just to fall in love with you.

I have this annoying gnawing feeling in my stomach that usually means she’s right.

Vocabulary lessons Thursday, Jul 9 2009 

Some recent comments, completely out of context, of course:

  • “There’s no fact facts.”
  • “I’m a girl girl.”
  • “That’s serious serious.”
  • “I was like reading reading.”

Oddly enough, not all of those are mine. But I sure love it when unexpected people talk like I do.

Some updating, both you and me Thursday, Jul 9 2009 

Okay, so I’ve been away. On the Boat Week. Which was amazingly fun, thank you for asking. I managed to avoid burning, mostly by layering SPF50-billion and long sleeved clothes. I did get some sun, so now I’m all freckled again. Which is all good and well, I like them. BF is all tanned and gorgeous, which really isn’t fair. He was having a blast, and got along great with everyone, btw. I have to admit I was a bit worried. Not because I didn’t trust him getting along with my friends, he’s one of those annoying people who get along with everyone! But because we have a very tight group, we’re mostly known each other since we were 6, so it’s really hard for someone new to come into the mix. Especially someone who doesn’t speak French. But he’s learning!

I took a beating in our Scrabble game, by the way. My French vocabulary is diminishing, it seems. Need to pick up some books in French from now on, as well as fashion magazines.

Speaking of fashion, my Boat Week was cut by a very welcome interruption. I’m currently writing this at my own desk, back in Paris, after taking in some of the Couture shows for fall. Once again, I walked out of Jean Paul Gaultier show with a long list of “I want that!” We’ll have to see. There were a few changes I’d like, and stuff, but… I love his stuff, everyone knows that! You can always trust JP to make something that’s at the same time “wow” and somehow so very “me”.

I’ve been streamlining my closet this past spring and early summer. Seriously. I’ve noticed that what with all the house-hopping, being in Finland, France, couple of places in States, I’ve reverted to the American style of wardrobe. And that’s no good. Most importantly, that’s not me. So, streamlining. Which is something I must remember when checking out the fall shows, and deciding what, if any, I’m getting this fall. (I didn’t make it to the Chanel show, but luckily I’m able to catch up with what they had later today.)

It’s time for me to return to my roots, and to the cornerstones of my wardrobe. Having, using, and buying only things I can honestly say I love with a passion. Things I can say I’ll wear 5 years from now. Because that’s always been my thing. I just got lost, together with everyone else, to this buying frenzy of funny little things and chic little pick-me-ups. (Okay, the lace-and-tulle over-the-knee lace-up stiletto heel boots by Sergio Rossi were a justified buy. If for no other reason, than how much BF loves those!)

But that’s all about fashion. Maybe I’ll make a more detailed post later on about it, should anyone care. There was something else I though about… Wonder what it was…

Oh, yes! In my current “I’m loving the Armed Forces” thing, that was started by the HBO mini series Generation Kill, and carried further by the actual book Generation Kill by Evan Wright, I have been immersing myself to the culture of military. It’s really quite fascinating! The bonds that are formed and the comrade that’s evident is quite special. Also, the philosophical yet practical approach these guys have towards things like life and death, war and love and family, is truly intriguing. I’ll write more about my feelings regarding Generation Kill in my review-of-sorts, once I get there, but for now, let’s just say you should all read it. Seriously. Another thing that’s been interesting to see is the way these more recent wars, like Iraq, Afghanistan and to an extent Vietnam, are treated so differently as stories from WWII and other earlier wars. It’s hard to believe that war’s any different, regardless of the time, and yet the image that gets portrayed makes it seem like the actual battle has changed considerably. But then again, what do I know, I’ve never been in any war, I’ve never served in military. Which in turns makes it an even more interesting read.

I was recommended a book called Of Arms and Men by Robert L O’Connell, about how the development of guns and technology has changed not only the wars we fight in but the society. It seems really interesting, so I might have to check that out.

The Boat Week managed to get me back to books again. I was, once again, in a bit of a reading funk, but all that lounging on the deck made me pick up a book and get lost in a story. After all, it’s not like I was going to swim! So… I’m back! Interestingly, I’ve been feeling my old interest to philosophy return, which is great. I’ve missed that. Also, after an embarrassingly long spout of “I can’t really be bothered”, I’m into contemporary issues again. Politics, culture, society. I want to know. And with that, always comes my thirst for history. Which in turn might have been flared up also by the military things I’ve read, as there’s always references to history when you’re talking about war. So all in all, I’m feeling like actually activating my brain again, after a long period of “handbag shopping counts as a sociopolitical and cultural statement, right?”. In the words of J, “the Brain is back”. This should be fun.

Now I have to go, I have an appointment before lunch.